Baby showers originated back in the very late 1800's when victorian ladies began having teas for mommy but not until after the baby was born because pregnant women did not appear in public. In the early 1900's, the teas transformed into "showers" which stood for showering the new mom with gifts. And umbrellas became symbolic because it was customary for ladies to carry parasols when they attended these afternoon gatherings.

Now a days anything goes. Some are still low key as they have been in the past and others are a grand occasion with party planners and extravagant venues. Even the dads-to-be is getting into the act by throwing "men only" showers and instead of "ladies only" parties they are bringing their spouses for a "couples" shower. Even though baby showers are no longer like they were back in the 1800's the tea party is still one of the most popular shower themes.